Some Tips to Handle Rejection on V-Day
Valentine's Day is one of the most auspicious days and it is the day to celebrate love. Love is a very complex emotion that often encompasses more than what can be seen on the surface. It is something that must be trodden with care and that is why you should be sure of what you do along the way and how you deal with your emotions. Valentine's Day is that time of the year where you would be trying to have a nice time with your beloved by exchanging Valentine’s gifts and enjoy the wonderful experience. There could be some rejections as well and it could be a difficult time for the singles who are trying to find their love.
Ideas to Avoid Rejection on Valentine's Day
Follow the tips given below if you want to avoid a rejection on Valentine's Day:
• Avoid Being Annoying - It does not matter if you are trying to go out with a girl you like or if it is your girlfriend, you must be careful with what you are doing around them. It would hardly matter what you do on a particular day. The impression that you make would be built prior to that and you should be careful about how you behave and what you do in front of them. So it would be a good idea to avoid being annoying and let them feel the warmth of your personality and attitude.
• Be Caring and Friendly - You should not just avoid being annoying or rude. You should also be very sincere and show your humane attitude, preferably by buying a beautiful bouquet of Valentine’s flowers. Be friendly and caring and show that how much they would mean to you and how much your company could be enjoyable. It would make the person feel comfortable around you and make him or her wanting to be around you. That would not mean that you should make false pretensions and flatter people.
• Try To Act Cool And Get Accepted By The Peer Group - Everyone likes a person who is quite sociable, gives Valentine’s flowers and greeting cards to his or her beloved and that is why it would be a good idea to get friendly with the friends of a person you would like to go out with. Also, you should get to know the friends of your girlfriend to make sure how they feel about you. The peer group is often important in someone's life and you should be extra careful about how much you are involved in the life of your loved one. Also, it might be a good way to show the person that you are very friendly and can easily mix with people.
• Make The Person Feel Your Importance - You should not always come out as 'clingy'. It is often important to give some space to the person to show how much your presence is worth. It is true that you should try and be friendly, but you should also stay apart at times to show that the person would be missing an important figure from their life once you are not there. Your presence should be important and it should make a strong and lovely impression on the person.
All these could help in avoiding the rejection, but the personal choices of a person vary a lot and it should be a great idea to oneself ready.
